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A large pair of unsettling eyes with ringed pink irises stare at a nude pink girl with straight black hair. She is clenched in its oversized white fist. Pink hands of various shades reach up from the bottom of the page. Text reads: [FETISHIZATION IS NOT REPRESENTATION IS NOT APPRECIATION IS NOT RESPECT]ALT
A girl with light pink skin and black hair holds a pink glittery mask over her face. It is titled so a single weeping eye is visible. A thick black bar crosses the red background behind her. Text reads: [YOUR GLORIFICATION OF THE PALATEABLE AESTHETICS OF MY CULTURE IS NOT REVERENCE]ALT
A chunky black silhouette stands against a pink background covered in images of singing kpop girl idols. Inside the figure, text reads: [AND EVEN AS YOU MEMORIZE THE PHONETICS OF YOUR FAVORITE KPOP CHORUS YOU STILL MISPRONOUNCE MY LAST NAME]ALT
An assortment of Asian food on pink dishes is arranged on a black background, including shrimp tempura, chicken curry, gyoza, soup dumplings, pork katsu, white rice, miso soup, kimchi, tteokbokki, kimbap, sushi, and ramen. Text reads: [YOU ENJOY EATING OUR FOOD BUT YOU DENY US A SEAT AT THE TABLE.]ALT
Two white silhouettes pose with a selfie stick against the Seoul skyline. White clouds and a plane stand in the pink sky. Below that, red fire consumes the background. Below that still, the background turns to black. Text reads: [YOU FANTASIZE THAT ASIAN COUNTRIES ARE A DREAMLAND YOU CAN ESCAPE TO… ALL THE WHILE IGNORING THE UGLY SCARS COLONIALISM HAS LEFT ON OUR HISTORIES… AND HOW WE ARE STILL PICKING UP THE PIECES IMPERIALISM HAS LEFT BEHIND]ALT
A girl with flowing black hair and pink skin weeps into her hands. Her tears are blood, and the wind seems to blow cuts across her body. Text reads: [YOU SPEAK OVER OUR VOICES, BUT YOU ARE SILENT AS WE ARE HARASSED AND KILLED]ALT
A white background is consumed by pink and reds at the bottom. Four black panels form a two-by-two grid, each of them showing a sexualized Asian girl drawn in red lines. The first, a girl in an Orientalist belly dancer costume; the second, a girl in a maid dress; the third, a schoolgirl in uniform; the fourth, in an oversexualized qipao with a slit along the thigh. Text reads: [GOD FORBID AN ASIAN PERSON EXISTS OUTSIDE OF YOUR IDEAL CONSUMMABLE PACKAGE: QUIET AND DEMURE AND POLITE AND CUTE]ALT
A drawing of a girl with shoulder-length hair and a hanbok against a pink background. A black bar blocks out her eyes, white text on it reading: [I AM NOT YOUR ASIAN AMERICAN DOLL]ALT

I Am Not Your Asian American Doll: a comic for AAPI Heritage Month 2023

I usually spend a lot of time editing and fine-tuning my comics so that they come across as polite and inoffensive. But honestly, I’m really tired of the way Asian cultures and countries are treated / talked about while Asian people themselves are excluded, and thought it was about time I really let my rage out lol.

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Ok so lately I’ve noticed there’s a big influx in trans acceptance to sapphic spaces, and I love that, but with that influx is coming a lot of poorly informed fetishism, so I’m going to do my best to deal some of the issues there.

This post is in no way saying “no trans women fit these attributes”, but simply outlining the way it feels like our acceptance is almost entirely predicated on our willingness to conform to a societal view of “inherent” masculinity.

Almost every post I see about trans bodies lately, especially those posts written by cis women, describes us almost exclusively in one way. Thick cocked, full of cum, ready to breed and top a pretty femme (often as a butch). SO I’m gonna dispel some myths.

Most trans people experience a degree of dysphoria; this means that for many (probably a majority) being assumed to be “butch” or “masc” based on our genitals, kinda fucking sucks. It’s something that people have called me since I came out, no matter how many times I told people it didn’t seem to fit; and it took my current partner to realise that it’s something I only accepted because I thought “yeah I don’t like this label, but at least I’m included”.

This dysphoria also affects how we fuck, a majority of us do that “differently”, we use different words for our bodies, penetrating somebody might not feel like an option, the way we enjoy oral and being stimulated changes. We don’t want to just “feel like the girl” in the relationship, we are the girl, and often thanks to societal pressures, that means wanting to bottom, to be babied, cared for, to feel like ‘the princess’. These differences aren’t just emotional, they’re physical as well because that’s what hormones do.

On that topic: hormones. Most trans women who are out are either on them or want to be on them. And hormones have a lot of affects that you know, softer skin and hair, titties, cry lots, but a common misconception seems to fall around our genitals.

Oestrogen shrinks your junk, it stops you producing cum, your doctors ask you dozens of times if you’re willing to become infertile and potentially never get hard again.

And to a lot of us, that’s a fucking good thing, it’s a relief, tucking becomes easier, erections aren’t going to spiral us into dysphoric panics at random and inconvenient times.

But now there seems to be a bit of a shift that is hitting people in a way I am only used to experiencing from men.
Y’all are accepting us not just “with our bodies” but in a lot of cases, because of your own perceptions of our bodies. The acceptance is now in the form of “hell yeah thick cock girls are so hot and should pump me full of cum” posts that remind the vast majority of out and transitioning women that they’re actively losing the thing people are fetishising us over, the thing that is giving us the acceptance we need.

SO,  this is a reminder to think about your trans followers, mutuals and friends, and just consider the difference between accepting them, understanding them and loving them; and fetishising them for their porn category attributes.

You can love girls with thick cocks dripping with cum all you like, just don’t forget how similar that feels to being fetishised when trans girls are treated as fake or strange for NOT being comfortable with being seen as “the hot top with a built-in strap” 

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Oh also, cis women and nb people can and should reblog this.

Don’t make trans women the only people trying to talk about this.

I shouldn’t have girls in my dms saying the hardest part of their dysphoria is trying to negotiate sex with potential partners. Take a chance to help eachother learn.